Kodi Arfer / Wisterwood

I don't know what to do...

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#001 | FallofNeoKuja |
Okay, I really don't know what to do. I really like that girl I told you guys about, but I don't know if things are going to work out. If I decide to try, I won't be able to ask her out until July 1st, 2012. If I don't, I can get a girlfriend sooner, but I lose the chance of knowing what could have happened. I really don't know. Part of me wants to move on, but the other part of me wants to give it a chance. I really don't know. I think I'm thinking more with my ***** than with my head. I don't know what to do... A little help would be greatly appreciated. I'm literally torn 50/50.

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#002 | ShadowSpy |
Why are you in a rush to get a girlfriend?
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#003 | Smithy04 |
That was fast...

Anyway, relationships are overrated. Being single rocks.
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#004 | FoxMetaI |
you need to calm down
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#005 | nalabell |
why july 1st 2012
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#006 | FallofNeoKuja |
She'll be 18 on June 26, 2012, and I would be seeing her July 1st next. She's not allowed to date yet. Also, I want a girlfriend/start dating because I think it's exactly what I need. It'll be healthy for me.

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#007 | nalabell |
wow and i thought my parents were strict...well is there any reason you hae to wait for her
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#008 | ShadowSpy |
What would be healthy about having a girlfriend? Do you think it'll help you grow?
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#009 | nalabell |
having a relationship isn't always a healthy thing bf and gf do fight and you flipping out on her wouldn't be uber awesome
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#010 | Ocarinakid2 |
It's sort of a grass is always greener thing. Being single or not, that is.

Anyway, just go behind her parent's backs. That's an absurd rule. Embrace that defiant side of yours you're always showing off around these parts.
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#011 | nalabell |
there are really good times but really bad times too
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#012 | Digitalpython |
I think it's cute that you expect your first relationship to last so long that it prevents you from asking someone out more than two years from now. I say just go after someone else for now, because if you're together with someone for more than two years, especially in high school, you're a very lucky person.

(Seriously, why would anyone try and keep their kids from dating until they turn 18? Aren't three or four years of supervised dating better than having them turn 18 with no idea of what to expect?)
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#013 | freepizza |
Being single is so much fun. The biggest reason I wanted a girlfriend when I was younger was to be able to say that I had one. Now that I've experienced the rotten fruits of yadda yadda yadda I would rather be single, until something really blows me away.
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#014 | DarthMarth |
I would side with singleness is awesome. But it's a bit easier for me, being asexual.
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#015 | Pooty Boy |
I still she should just break from her parents rules and do it. If she likes you (does she?) then it's worth it. That rule is absurd.

If not, then don't wait for her. Don't spend your whole life bending over backwards and foolishly waiting for some chick.

If a girl likes you now - do it. You need the experience. And TRUST ME... a good girlfriend makes your life so, so, so much better.
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"A special effect without a story is a pretty boring thing." - George Lucas
#016 | FallofNeoKuja |
Yeah, good idea... I can go behind her parents' backs, and her dad will show me his gun (the same thing he did to that creepy kid that kept pushing her for sex). Yeah, her dad is really strict. Her mom is all for things like dating and facebook, but the dad won't budge. Maybe I should try some of my Murano charm?

She flat-out told me she's not interested in anybody right now. She just wants to be friends now. From what I've heard, though, she's the kind of girl who wants to go to college, get a career, and then get a boyfriend. I'm not waiting ten years for a maybe...

Also, I think getting a girlfriend would be healthy because it may lessen my reliance on Internet porn to figure out what I like... <_< If I actually get some real life experience, it'll make things much easier on me (especially since I'm going to college next year and might meet someone there. I don't want to blow any chances...).

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#017 | LinkPrime1 |
*reads first post*

*reads last post*

*explodes*
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#018 | Mith |
Who would have thought that after all the offal that has been spewed in the past that that would be the post that leaves me speechless.

I freely admit that I have no idea how to help you, Anthony. None at all.

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#019 | ShadowSpy |
My thoughts on this:

Yeah, waiting ten years for a maybe is no good. The thing about dating when you're young is that a lot of people just aren't ready to date yet, and if they are, you still have to deal with parents. So definitely move on from this one. If you're going to college next year, maybe even wait until then--girls in college are generally more open to the idea of dating than girls in high school--at least from my experience.

And while I agree that watching porn won't give you any relationship experience whatsoever...getting into an actual relationship just for the sake of having a relationship won't help you grow any and will end up getting both parties hurt.

What you have to do is grow by yourself. Focus on improving yourself on all levels: academics, confidence, socializing, hobbies, etc. If you stop caring about getting a relationship and focus on other things, you'll find that eventually, a relationship will just happen.
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#020 | Pooty Boy |
Yeah, good idea... I can go behind her parents' backs, and her dad will show me his gun (the same thing he did to that creepy kid that kept pushing her for sex). Yeah, her dad is really strict. Her mom is all for things like dating and facebook, but the dad won't budge. Maybe I should try some of my Murano charm?

She flat-out told me she's not interested in anybody right now. She just wants to be friends now. From what I've heard, though, she's the kind of girl who wants to go to college, get a career, and then get a boyfriend. I'm not waiting ten years for a maybe...


A few things.

1. If the father is really like that you don't want anything to do with her. You don't need that in your life. We like to call them "crazy people."

2. So... she wants to get her first (assuming) boyfriend at around 25? Good luck with that. Normal guys will have NO interest in a girl like that with no experience. It's just weird. Like, really weird. Sounds like this girl is a freakshow. Steer clear.

Not even you deserve this kind of weirdness. The girl and her family are freaks and I'd stay away. And I don't care how pretty you think she is - no girl is worth that madness. You don't want to be dragged in to that craziness.

Walk away and never look back. No - run away. ***** seems crazy. Find someone else. Someone NORMAL.
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"A special effect without a story is a pretty boring thing." - George Lucas
#021 | Pooty Boy |
Oh and for the record her saying she has no interest in anyone means she doesn't like you like that. Not now. Not ever. And don't even try to justify a "future" in any way.

Don't try to kid yourself. She's not that kind of girl. You need to move on and find someone better. This broad ain't worth the effort.
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"A special effect without a story is a pretty boring thing." - George Lucas
#022 | Pooty Boy |
Oh, and Shadow is right. "Searching" for a relationship will be a dead end. You can't force it.

Relationships happen when you're not even looking for one. When you least expect it.
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"A special effect without a story is a pretty boring thing." - George Lucas
#023 | freepizza |
"Oh and for the record her saying she has no interest in anyone means she doesn't like you like that. Not now. Not ever."

Truth
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"...you should try reading my posts being getting all emo." --FoxMetal
#024 | Pooty Boy |
^ Yes. It is truth.

I swear kid if you come in here like "well, no, you're wrong! It will be different when she's 18! I'll have a chance! I'll prove it! I'M RIGHT!!!!!!"

No. **** ain't happening. Anthony and Angelina will NEVER EVER ****ING HAPPEN.

Find someone else.
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"A special effect without a story is a pretty boring thing." - George Lucas
#025 | FoxMetaI |
go for it; you'll only get one opportunity and you don't want to go the rest of your life wondering, do you?
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#026 | Pooty Boy |
So Fox... you want him to wait TWO YEARS???

Even if he did AT LEAST have other girlfriends in the interim...
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"A special effect without a story is a pretty boring thing." - George Lucas
#027 | FoxMetaI |
yeah. how else is he gonna learn?
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"I'm not great at farewells, so uh... that'll do, pig."
Natalie Portman was here
#028 | freepizza |
Reading books
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"...you should try reading my posts being getting all emo." --FoxMetal
#029 | BUM |
Go for it, or go for something. A girlfriend could be good for you.

What I mean is, chances are the first time always fails. But until you've really been there, you'll never learn how to grow past it, and get ready for the next one(s).
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#030 | AzumarillMan |
Relationships happen when you're not even looking for one. When you least expect it.

Truth.
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#031 | FallofNeoKuja |
Well, guys, I appreciate the comments, I really do. Here's the thing, though. I am drawn to this girl. I keep telling myself I'm going to move on, but I only follow through for like two days tops and then I'm right back to her. What do you call it when you're so drawn to a girl that you can't stop thinking about her, no matter how many hot ones you meet? I'd call that... love :O.


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#032 | Kodiologist |
You've become quite a Charlie Brown, Anthony.

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#033 | FallofNeoKuja |
I can't help it!!! I know in my gut it won't work out, but I'm drawn to her... She must be a witch... LOL!

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I will not accept death... I simply won't.
#034 | Digitalpython |
I think that's actually called having a crush, dude. As for what to do about it...I dunno? Try going behind her family's back by faking your own death. That always works for star-crossed lovers, right?
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#035 | SocioPathology |
I thought that everyone usually dies in that scenario.
#036 | DarthMarth |
If I could share with you my ability to resist and destroy crushes, I would. Instead, I will simply let you know that it is possible.
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#037 | TheCheezBounce |
Hah! How naive you are. Love =/= obsession. You don't know this chick at all, and she's clearly not interested in you. You have absolutely no reason to think you're in "love." If you want to say you're the creepy stalker dude that comes up to her on her 18th birthday and say, "I've been waiting for you. *heavy breathing* Go out with me now?" go for that. Don't say you're in love though.
And don't say, "OMG YOU DON'T KNOW ME AND THIS CHICK!" I've actually experienced relationships. I've been in one for longer than 4 years. Trust me, you don't know what love is until you have experienced knowing someone intimately for a long time. Love is more than just wanting to be near someone. If you think that's all it is, you're dreadfully mistaken.

Long post short: You're setting yourself up for a great amount of disappointment waiting for her.
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#038 | willis5225 |
I forget what I was reading, but it made the quip that "as a teenager, you have enough hormones raging every which way that you could fall in love with a ham sandwich and it would be entirely sincere and guileless." I mean, God, I know I could've, if I'd met the right sandwich.

I don't have any advice, because it's a waste of everyone's time and I honestly haven't read any of the posts enough to have a meaningful opinion, but dude, ask her out, see how it goes, if she says no, chalk it up to experience, because there's a lot of misery and rejection to be had in life, and taking it with dignity is a valuable skill that it's best to learn early. Oh, I guess she might be into it. Yeah, look into that.
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