Threw away nine months on the woman that I was beginning to think may be the one. Turns out she was just like every other selfish, back-stabbing, ***** I've ever known.
I'm so hurt... God why did this happen again...
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"A special effect without a story is a pretty boring thing." - George Lucas
drag, dude... i feel for you. you wanna talk about it?
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"I'm not great at farewells, so uh... that'll do, pig."
Natalie Portman was here
Sorry to hear that.
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"...you should try reading my posts being getting all emo." --FoxMetal
Well now it's so much more than that. Apparently her roommate sabotaged the entire relationship at the end for reasons unknown. One of the two of them is ****ing crazy. Now I have to just find out who.
I'm back with her - she called me hysterically crying yesterday and wanted to work it all out. I'm so on guard right now. I don't know who I can trust,
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"A special effect without a story is a pretty boring thing." - George Lucas
The best solution is to breathe deep and forgive. Be calm. Talk it out calmly. If it helps, make an item designated as the item you must hold to speak, so only one person can talk at a time. This helps avoid a bitter argument, and instead clear the air.
Remember, there's almost never a real villain. If a girl was with you for 9 months, she's probably not dripping with venom, or completely irrational. She has a story. You fell for her for a reason. You've got to get her to be calm, rational, and completely honest with you.
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BUM must have never heard my stories.
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"...you should try reading my posts being getting all emo." --FoxMetal
You people are so bitterly cynical about the opposite sex it's mildly offensive.
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Holy **** we're in the Matrix? - Willis
Not really, Cheez... We just can't figure the opposite sex out. One minute, they're all nice and saying you're sweet. The next minute, they ***** that you like them and tell all their friends that you are chasing them. Also, I'm not basing this on pure speculation. I've had several girls tell me that they themselves are hard to figure out.
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I will not accept death... I simply won't.
Maybe I should have included that it's kind of offensive you would generalize such negative things to an entire sex.
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Holy **** we're in the Matrix? - Willis
Yeah, the "every woman is a selfish backstabbing *****" thing is sort of off-putting and, y'know, douchey.
Like, it's cool that you need to vent and for some reason people seem to like to attribute awfulness to people they've just broken up with, so if that's your thing shine on, but man, c'mon. You wouldn't come in here and go on about all the black people you know, or all the Jews you know. Why are women different?
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Willis, it seems like every other time you post, I need to look up a word that's in the OED or Urban Dictionary but not both.
-Mimir
Ugh, you see what you did? You made me whiteknight. Now I need to make a playfully misogynistic thread to balance it out.
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Willis, it seems like every other time you post, I need to look up a word that's in the OED or Urban Dictionary but not both.
-Mimir
Not really, Cheez... We just can't figure the opposite sex out. One minute, they're all nice and saying you're sweet. The next minute, they ***** that you like them and tell all their friends that you are chasing them. Also, I'm not basing this on pure speculation. I've had several girls tell me that they themselves are hard to figure out.
...Didn't you make this nearly exact post last year, to the same person, regarding the same subject, and...
Maybe I should have included that it's kind of offensive you would generalize such negative things to an entire sex.
...get virtually the exact same response?...
Back on topic- Really hope things work out for you two, Pooty. If I knew a bit more about the situation I might be able to give you actual advice, but I'm pulling for yah regardless!
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Well, there is a new accent of n00b language. It's called: Vet LUEser goes Foreign!-MegaSpy22
Those must be the pants of the gods!-Digitalpython
Well, it's true... Women are hard to figure out. That's just the way it is. I'm not saying that in a negative way. I'm just saying that nearly every girl I ask about this subject has told me that they agree that women are hard to figure out.
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I will not accept death... I simply won't.
That's not even close to what you were saying earlier. At all. Just so you know.
Anyway, good luck with your relationship, Pooty. Sorry for trying to hijack your topic.
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Holy **** we're in the Matrix? - Willis
Whaddya mean "you people"? Is this because I'm black?
But seriously. You'll probably never meet a man so dissatisfied with America and the world in general on the degradation of the female sex. Really, you should see me rant about how America is only half an ounce better than societies in which women don't go to school. I think the only comment that was sexist here was Pooty's, but I recognize it's spoken out of anger.
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No need to apologize.
It's a strange situation. If I get REALLY bored perhaps I'll type the whole thing up. It's basically this: I was either stuck in the spider's web (roommate's lies) or I'm sleeping with the enemy, per se. The roommate is either an angel or the devil.
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"A special effect without a story is a pretty boring thing." - George Lucas