the Bayesian view that probability is just a lack of knowledge
Really? I've heard this idea associated with Bayesian Statistics before, but didn't think it was a defining trait (which differentiates it from other kinds of probability).
I'm no expert on physics, so I've always assumed the Bayesian view.If we had enough knowledge about quantum particles, we wouldn't have to use probability to measure them. But because of the ridiculously small size of these particles, it's impossible to gather enough data to make a deterministic prediction. On top of that, Newtonian physics break down at this scale, so we don't even know what (non-probabilistic) laws/principles to apply.
Perhaps your friend is referring to interesting quantum phenomena, such as one particle being in two places at once and the observer effect. But in my mind, this is just stuff that we can't possibly know, rather than being inherently probabilistic.
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